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Follow along as my friends and I "search" for love and happiness! I have many girlfriends spread across the country who also have friends who may have an interesting story for me to share. No worries friends and our "boos" your names are safe... I won't tell, if YOU don't tell. Look at each post not to see if you know who I am talking 'bout but instead to grow and help us grow as the wonderful women we are.







Don't ask me who I'm talkin' 'bout, 'cause I ain't tellin'! LOL

But don't forget to add your 2 cents.... I like to hear others opinions even if I dont agree.... but hey maybe you do agree....








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~Keisha~



Thursday, July 26, 2018

The Royal Wedding

I was the little girl who once upon a time believed in fairy tales.  I'm a Disney Princess fanatic. I saw the the The Princess and the Frog like 3 or 4 times in theaters and I only took kids once. As life happened my belief in fairy tales dwindled. 


Then a black divorced 36 year old woman became engaged to the wild and handsome Prince Harry. The game changed! I know, she's mixed, light skinned, with "good hair" but nonetheless she's still all the things I first mentioned. And that man LOVES that woman. 

As I got up at 630-ish on a Saturday to watch The Royal Wedding, it gave this little black girl a little piece of hope. It gave me desire to get back in the game. It gave me the desire to curse out my friends for not setting me up on blind dates with the princes in their circles. 

Friday, July 20, 2018

#Jesus Year


I always like to start a new year with reflection of the past year. Luckily for me, my birthday is pretty mid-way through the year. It's a great place to hit reset on my New Year's Resolutions. 

The past year has been hard. Not really a loud hard but a silent hard. I've cried. I've bossed up. Been unapologetically me. 

I'm hitting reset and refocusing on me, myself, and I. Focused on being my best self and living my best life. Judas just know it's my #jesusyear but I ain't Jesus. *wink wink*

Saturday, July 7, 2018

The Only Single Girl in the Room

As I travel along my path of life, I'm increasingly becoming the only really single girl in the room. As I continue along my path most of my friends have boyfriends, husbands, kids, etc. And then there is me. Just. Me. Here's the beauty of it for me, I'm increasingly ok with it just being me. 

I get a lot of pressure to be a couple. "Do online dating" and "you should be with so and so" they say. But a HUGE part me of is okay not entertaining another Mr. Wrong instead of being selfish with myself. 

I often find myself wondering why should I be in a huge rush to share myself with someone else forever. Especially when, a lot of men are not REALLY committed to their wives and significant others. Trust me and my screenshots on that one. Hahahaha! 

Tuesday, January 9, 2018

Writing The Vision Again....

Write the vision and make it plain they say…

A married co-worker of mine, has told me again to write my desires in a husband. Sigh…. I did that already and I’m still single…. You can check it out here. I was pretty darn close to that first list… uggghhhh…. But I guess I’m back and square one. I was told to make it “working” list and to be specific. So I am doing just that…. I’ve actually written it with pen and paper and allow my experiences to craft what my heart desires. I am going trust that God’s got me! 

Monday, January 1, 2018

Won't He Do It in 2018


The top song on my Corolla Praise and Worship playlist is “Won’t He Do It.” By Koryn Hawthorne.  People who spend a lot of time know that I throw “won’t he do it *hand wave and foot pat*” out A LOT!! But this song has been a testament to my life… and my 2017.  “I’m going to look back and be so amazed. How it turned out is only his grace.”
I am coming out of 2017 stronger. I have had lessons on standing up for myself and not taking other people’s shit. I have gotten hit by a car I saw coming from miles away. I have had to learn that I am not able to do it all. I’ve had to depend on other’s to help keep my carefully balanced scheduled still balanced and going. I’ve had to commit to get up from the table when love is no longer offered. I’ve had to TRULY accept MY JOURNEY and be at peace with what’s mine. I can see your “happily ever after” and be okay with it not being mine.  
As I look at 2017, I see foundations laid for the good things to come in 2018. Things I’ve prayed for in the past possibly coming down the pipeline.  I’ve seen the devil hard at work with the past boos in my messages on various platforms. -_- The devil has been hard at work trying to steal my joy but I have my eyes on the prize. So hey husband… you have to be on the horizon. LOL If not, I am at peace sleeping alone. I am walking into 2018 taking auntie Tracee Ellis Ross words to heart. I am going truly live my life for me and put ME first. Yes, I am going to be a SELFISH person and be that on purpose. In the past (I have a post in my heart about a specific time) I have put other’s first and I am not 100% sure that worked out in my favor. “I got mountains to climb in 2018. The enemy can’t stop me because there is a calling on my life. “ I walk into 2018 by faith and not by sight into my purpose. 2018 I’m ready because my trust in God has me covered.
 Happy 2018 y’all be BLESSED and AMAZING. Keep working towards your “well done!” 
Walking in to 2018 by faith and not by sight.... 

Saturday, November 18, 2017

I. Am. Not. The. Weekend.


"How you want me and you got a girl"
 I. Am. Not. The. Weekend. Don’t get me wrong, I love the song and can jam out to it but somewhere along the line, guys got it twisted. If you can’t or don’t want me from 9-5, I am unavailable to you on "weekend".  I’m not sure where they got the idea, I want to be 2nd place. Like WTF?!? Thanks but no thanks. Stay home and enjoy your happily ever after or whatever you were doing.  I do not want to spend my down time getting whatever is left of you. I’d rather spend my time with myself.  My personal struggle is “what am I doing” to make you think that’s how I roll. I have to stop and remind myself. That I am unmarried, childless, and grown. I can do what the fuck I want! I can dress how I want. Do what I want. I am living my life for me. Not to some standards set by others. Being an “old maid” is not your invitation to offer me your bad karma and/or penis. I'm good boo. 


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Monday, August 14, 2017

Buy the Damn Glue Sticks!

It’s back to school time… womp womp womp…. I’m just getting started with summer vacation.  Every year around this time when stores put up their fancy back to school displays, I start to see all the complaints about buying school supplies. And you know what! It burns the depths of my soul! “Why do they need so many glue sticks? The teacher should….” *grabs pearls* The teacher probably spent way more on school supplies than the $50 per kid you will buy on top of the fact that your kids shoes cost more than what you spent on school supplies. I know that because I (who REFUSES or at least tries to not buy school supplies) has already spent $50 on school supplies. I still am waiting on 60 folders to go sale so I don’t have to spend $30 on folders and I’m going to buy at least 20 glue sticks myself.
YES!! Your child needs however many glue sticks are listed on the list and whatever is on the list. You don’t know how many glue sticks end up without tops on them and dry out, or kids roll all the way up and smash them when they try to put the top on it, or they cut them in half, or they just throw away for NO REASON! I’m running around like a glue stick police trying to keep all the glue sticks safe.  And let’s not talk about tissues. They grab a handful of tissues and WIPE their nose and throw them away. They didn’t blow it so it it’s continues to run, so before you know it, a box of tissues are gone in 30 minutes.  I spend at least a month (sometimes MUCH longer) teaching children how to not waste YOUR supplies so I don’t have to go into my stash. With all the gluing, writing, germs etc. your child needs all of the supplies listed … so just BUY THE DAMN GLUE STICKS!
My School supply list if I could send out my own would go something like this…
-          5 COMPOSITION books (not spiral notebooks- those wires are not safe)
-          2 boxes of Crayola crayons (They color the best.)
-          36 quality pencils (Cheap pencils are eaten up by the pencil sharpener and break it.)
-          2 pair of scissors
-          8 large or 12 regular sized Elmer’s glue sticks (the others dry out and end up in trash by March)
-          1 regular pencil box
-          plastic pocket folders with prongs in green, purple, and black
-          2 pocket folders of your child’s choice
-          8 highlighters
-          1 box of gallon sized zipper bags (girls)
-          1 box of sandwich sized zipper bags (boys)
-          2 regular sized bottles of hand sanitizer (not the little individual bottles)
-          Clorox/Lysol wipes
-          2 boxes of tissues
-          8 dry erase markers
-          1 pair of headphones
*You know your child, if he/she is clumsy, destructive, or messy you should purchase and send extra of these items. For those little people, the items listed will NOT last them/us through the year.*
Things not to send those little personal pencil sharpeners and fidget spinners. Additional requested items but not required by each child include notebook paper, cardstock, snacks, markers, paper plates, etc. Please feel free to reach out and request are sent out regularly.


But on a real note, teachers pour a lot of unpaid time as well as their own personal money into their classrooms and your child’s school year. The least you can do is send YOUR child to school READY to get the most of those 180 days. I am grateful every year for those parents who send in snacks, GLUE STICKS, etc. throughout the year! They are truly a blessing because some kids are not fortunate enough to afford supplies and brand new back to school gear and that helps me meet those children’s needs  and worry about more important things like ya know, teaching.  If you buy your 7 year old Jordans for his first day back, you do not need to be on my timeline complaining about .50 glue sticks...