What's your pick?
If you know me or follow my blog, you’ll see that I’m a chameleon - my hair is constantly changing. I have no problem wearing my real hair one day and a long curly wig the next. I like to change it up, I like a little variety in my life.
In the past few months, I have several conversations with two male friends about their like/dislike of my versatility. Friend 1: a co-worker. He sees the REAL me on a daily basis: real hair, real boobs, real nails, real eyelashes, etc (this list could probably go on forever). He always notices when I’ve added a taste of versatility and thinks it’s a good thing. On the other hand, Friend 2: Mr. LT expresses his dislike of my “versatility.”
More often than not, the versatility is more so for me than for others, but I admit I will switch it up for the opposite sex occasionally. The Blasian (Black and Asian) me on a Friday night gets way more play and free drinks than the “9-5” me. Her long locks paired with my slanted eyes, long eyelashes, and acrylic nails gives me the exotic Asian look. Admittedly, some nights I’m trying to get wasted and not spend a lot of money while doing it. Most men who meet the Blasian version of me really don’t get any play, as I don’t and most likely won’t look this way on a daily basis.
Fellas, do you prefer a woman that is real or one that keeps the weave fresh, the acrylics on point, and has that Niki Minaj body - or would you rather roll with a woman who has the confidence to be herself.?
I need a man in my life who loves the REAL me and doesn’t mind when the “fake” me comes to visit.
In the past few months, I have several conversations with two male friends about their like/dislike of my versatility. Friend 1: a co-worker. He sees the REAL me on a daily basis: real hair, real boobs, real nails, real eyelashes, etc (this list could probably go on forever). He always notices when I’ve added a taste of versatility and thinks it’s a good thing. On the other hand, Friend 2: Mr. LT expresses his dislike of my “versatility.”
More often than not, the versatility is more so for me than for others, but I admit I will switch it up for the opposite sex occasionally. The Blasian (Black and Asian) me on a Friday night gets way more play and free drinks than the “9-5” me. Her long locks paired with my slanted eyes, long eyelashes, and acrylic nails gives me the exotic Asian look. Admittedly, some nights I’m trying to get wasted and not spend a lot of money while doing it. Most men who meet the Blasian version of me really don’t get any play, as I don’t and most likely won’t look this way on a daily basis.
Fellas, do you prefer a woman that is real or one that keeps the weave fresh, the acrylics on point, and has that Niki Minaj body - or would you rather roll with a woman who has the confidence to be herself.?
I need a man in my life who loves the REAL me and doesn’t mind when the “fake” me comes to visit.
Ms. Keisha, I believe most men would agree with me and say, they love what makes you happy & bubbly inside. Whether you are rocking God's given beauty, or the one you picked up from the beauty shop, guys pick up on the confidence, and we love it. Most guys like chilling with a shorty thats being her... Whatever she feels.... Definitely changing it up sometimes want hurt.. Just be you, beautiful**
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