Ephiphany

And it comes to me like an EPIPHANY...

So a few weeks ago, it hit me that I was traveling down a road, and seeing all types of signs, but I wasn’t reading any of them. *Kanye shrugs*. Sometimes, you have to go down a road and experience it so you don’t look back on life and think "what if?"

Have you ever been driving down a road and you realize everything looks quite familiar? You discover that it’s not deja vu and you really have been there before. You know exactly where this road is leading and you would rather not make this trip again, so you tap the brake and head for the nearest exit.

Once you've slowed down, you realize you may not have seen the trees because of the forest (or whatever the saying is) and what you may have been looking for has been in front of you the entire time. I am extremely goal oriented and when I see something I want, I put forth a serious effort to get it. Sometimes everything doesn’t turn out as I envisioned, but I like to live life without regrets. Today, I think I can go forward, make this "move" and be confident in my choice. Sometimes it "be like that.”

5 Things to do as a Single Woman

Here are my 5 must-dos for a single woman.

Most women will not get married before the age 35. We all need something to do as we wait on Mr. Right!

5 - Do something fun! Enjoy life!

4 - Chill the fuck out! Your husband is coming (more than likely) and you need to enjoy your life RIGHT NOW!

3 - Learn something to make you better. Take a pole dancing class or a cooking class, etc. It’s the little things make life better/more enjoyable, and hey - your future Mr. won’t mind these little extras. ;-)

2- Save some money and work on the credit that you may or may not have totally disregarded in college! You may want to have a wedding or a buy a house someday. Let’s not forget those little expensive people that result from a happy union. Aside from that, it’s always nice to have a little money in the bank to cushion us from life’s unexpected blows, whether single or married.

1- See the world and travel! The world has SO much to offer. Go check it out! Have an Eat, Pray, Love moment! And there is no better time than now!

Recorded in beautiful Peurta Vallarta, Mexico.

We are Family

We Are Family

This is my first video blog...

Love your family.... you only get one....

Man I Love My Team

My people hold me down!

I am girl who has had the opportunity to call 3 areas in Virginia home: Martinsville, DMV, and now Richmond. I’ve encountered lots of people while living throughout the state. Each time that I’ve moved, I’ve added different people to “my team”. I don’t just meet people and automatically give them a spot my team, not everyone makes the final cut. Some are here because they are my business partners, some know ALL my business, some have shared common experiences and goals and others keep me grounded. The are just a few of the many reasons people are on my team. Now don’t get me wrong, it’s a possibility that some of my team members of my team may screw YOU over. Damn, a few members of my team have (and probably will again) screw me over (gotta keep it real) if given the opportunity. But please be reminded that they are here for a reason. My reasons are just that MINE. You are not allowed to choose who makes up my team nor do they solely define who I am. The connections and interactions I have will have an impact on my life, but who says to say if they will be positive or negative.... I do (for the most part). You cannot choose my team nor can I choose yours.

As you choose your team pick them for yourself and not for others....