As a single woman with many single friends, I wonder how we’re supposed go about finding men to date. My friends who are in “relationships” that seem to have some longevity have a strong element of friendship. Can you really meet a new BFF in a bar with a system full of vodka, as he’s trying to get you home in his bed? Ummm... NO! As I reflect on my past meaningful “relationships”, they have been with guys who I’ve considered friends, guys who I could just hang out with and were cool to be around. Ladies, as we go out “looking” for Mr. Right, let’s not forget to be on the look out for guys who possess qualities that an awesome BFF should possess. I’m sure those qualities will make lasting relationships. Just think, me and my “real” BFF have been friends since I was 8. Almost 20 years later, we can fuss and cuss each other out and still go strong. You need to establish that type of relationship with your significant other where you can talk, hang out, party, have each other’s back, hit the bumps and keep it moving. That’s what’s going to make your relationship last. In short ladies, get out of the club looking for a man. I just don’t know where to tell you to go on your search...
