The Pursuit of Love, Happiness and WHATEVA else I find.....: Don't Put All Your Eggs in 1 Basket

WELCOME

Follow along as my friends and I "search" for love and happiness! I have many girlfriends spread across the country who also have friends who may have an interesting story for me to share. No worries friends and our "boos" your names are safe... I won't tell, if YOU don't tell. Look at each post not to see if you know who I am talking 'bout but instead to grow and help us grow as the wonderful women we are.

Don't ask me who I'm talkin' 'bout, 'cause I ain't tellin'! LOL

But don't forget to add your 2 cents.... I like to hear others opinions even if I dont agree.... but hey maybe you do agree....

*SMOOCHES*

~Keisha~

Sunday, April 10, 2011

Don't Put All Your Eggs in 1 Basket

As I grow... I keep my options open

In honor of Easter/Spring…

How many times have you heard this cliché: “Don’t put all your eggs in one basket?” One too many times, I’m sure. Whoever started this was definitely onto something; something that I use in my life’s pursuit. Men make habit of keeping their options open and as young, mobile professional women, so should we. Sometimes we find a man that we’re into - things are going well, we’re chatting, we’ve gone on a few dates and then discover that he’s dating other people and end up disappointed when we discover we are only one of his many options. Now, I’ll admit I’m not crazy about the concept of casual dating, but as I mature, I realize that it isn’t so bad as long as it’s kept casual and things don’t get too personal with the men I decide to keep around.

As I continue, my pursuit I keep this in mind. I have my boos who I talk to, kick it with, etc. I plan to keep it this way until one of my " boos" and I decide we to make our relationship exclusive. Until that time, I'm going to keep a dollar worth of dimes...LOL! Well, maybe more like a penny, a couple of nickels, a dime or two and a quarter ;-).

Happy Spring!