The Pursuit of Love, Happiness and WHATEVA else I find.....: July 2018

WELCOME

Follow along as my friends and I "search" for love and happiness! I have many girlfriends spread across the country who also have friends who may have an interesting story for me to share. No worries friends and our "boos" your names are safe... I won't tell, if YOU don't tell. Look at each post not to see if you know who I am talking 'bout but instead to grow and help us grow as the wonderful women we are.

Don't ask me who I'm talkin' 'bout, 'cause I ain't tellin'! LOL

But don't forget to add your 2 cents.... I like to hear others opinions even if I dont agree.... but hey maybe you do agree....

*SMOOCHES*

~Keisha~

Thursday, July 26, 2018

The Royal Wedding

I was the little girl who once upon a time believed in fairy tales. I'm a Disney Princess fanatic. I saw the the The Princess and the Frog like 3 or 4 times in theaters and I only took kids once. As life happened my belief in fairy tales dwindled.

Then a black divorced 36 year old woman became engaged to the wild and handsome Prince Harry. The game changed! I know, she's mixed, light skinned, with "good hair" but nonetheless she's still all the things I first mentioned. And that man LOVES that woman.

As I got up at 630-ish on a Saturday to watch The Royal Wedding, it gave this little black girl a little piece of hope. It gave me desire to get back in the game. It gave me the desire to curse out my friends for not setting me up on blind dates with the princes in their circles.

Friday, July 20, 2018

#Jesus Year

I always like to start a new year with reflection of the past year. Luckily for me, my birthday is pretty mid-way through the year. It's a great place to hit reset on my New Year's Resolutions.

The past year has been hard. Not really a loud hard but a silent hard. I've cried. I've bossed up. Been unapologetically me.

I'm hitting reset and refocusing on me, myself, and I. Focused on being my best self and living my best life. Judas just know it's my #jesusyear but I ain't Jesus. *wink wink*

Saturday, July 7, 2018

The Only Single Girl in the Room

As I travel along my path of life, I'm increasingly becoming the only really single girl in the room. As I continue along my path most of my friends have boyfriends, husbands, kids, etc. And then there is me. Just. Me. Here's the beauty of it for me, I'm increasingly ok with it just being me.

I get a lot of pressure to be a couple. "Do online dating" and "you should be with so and so" they say. But a HUGE part me of is okay not entertaining another Mr. Wrong instead of being selfish with myself.

I often find myself wondering why should I be in a huge rush to share myself with someone else forever. Especially when, a lot of men are not REALLY committed to their wives and significant others. Trust me and my screenshots on that one. Hahahaha!