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Follow along as my friends and I "search" for love and happiness! I have many girlfriends spread across the country who also have friends who may have an interesting story for me to share. No worries friends and our "boos" your names are safe... I won't tell, if YOU don't tell. Look at each post not to see if you know who I am talking 'bout but instead to grow and help us grow as the wonderful women we are.







Don't ask me who I'm talkin' 'bout, 'cause I ain't tellin'! LOL

But don't forget to add your 2 cents.... I like to hear others opinions even if I dont agree.... but hey maybe you do agree....








*SMOOCHES*



~Keisha~



Tuesday, January 9, 2018

Writing The Vision Again....

Write the vision and make it plain they say…

A married co-worker of mine, has told me again to write my desires in a husband. Sigh…. I did that already and I’m still single…. You can check it out here. I was pretty darn close to that first list… uggghhhh…. But I guess I’m back and square one. I was told to make it “working” list and to be specific. So I am doing just that…. I’ve actually written it with pen and paper and allow my experiences to craft what my heart desires. I am going trust that God’s got me! 

Monday, January 1, 2018

Won't He Do It in 2018


The top song on my Corolla Praise and Worship playlist is “Won’t He Do It.” By Koryn Hawthorne.  People who spend a lot of time know that I throw “won’t he do it *hand wave and foot pat*” out A LOT!! But this song has been a testament to my life… and my 2017.  “I’m going to look back and be so amazed. How it turned out is only his grace.”
I am coming out of 2017 stronger. I have had lessons on standing up for myself and not taking other people’s shit. I have gotten hit by a car I saw coming from miles away. I have had to learn that I am not able to do it all. I’ve had to depend on other’s to help keep my carefully balanced scheduled still balanced and going. I’ve had to commit to get up from the table when love is no longer offered. I’ve had to TRULY accept MY JOURNEY and be at peace with what’s mine. I can see your “happily ever after” and be okay with it not being mine.  
As I look at 2017, I see foundations laid for the good things to come in 2018. Things I’ve prayed for in the past possibly coming down the pipeline.  I’ve seen the devil hard at work with the past boos in my messages on various platforms. -_- The devil has been hard at work trying to steal my joy but I have my eyes on the prize. So hey husband… you have to be on the horizon. LOL If not, I am at peace sleeping alone. I am walking into 2018 taking auntie Tracee Ellis Ross words to heart. I am going truly live my life for me and put ME first. Yes, I am going to be a SELFISH person and be that on purpose. In the past (I have a post in my heart about a specific time) I have put other’s first and I am not 100% sure that worked out in my favor. “I got mountains to climb in 2018. The enemy can’t stop me because there is a calling on my life. “ I walk into 2018 by faith and not by sight into my purpose. 2018 I’m ready because my trust in God has me covered.
 Happy 2018 y’all be BLESSED and AMAZING. Keep working towards your “well done!” 
Walking in to 2018 by faith and not by sight.... 

Saturday, November 18, 2017

I. Am. Not. The. Weekend.


"How you want me and you got a girl"
 I. Am. Not. The. Weekend. Don’t get me wrong, I love the song and can jam out to it but somewhere along the line, guys got it twisted. If you can’t or don’t want me from 9-5, I am unavailable to you on "weekend".  I’m not sure where they got the idea, I want to be 2nd place. Like WTF?!? Thanks but no thanks. Stay home and enjoy your happily ever after or whatever you were doing.  I do not want to spend my down time getting whatever is left of you. I’d rather spend my time with myself.  My personal struggle is “what am I doing” to make you think that’s how I roll. I have to stop and remind myself. That I am unmarried, childless, and grown. I can do what the fuck I want! I can dress how I want. Do what I want. I am living my life for me. Not to some standards set by others. Being an “old maid” is not your invitation to offer me your bad karma and/or penis. I'm good boo. 


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Monday, August 14, 2017

Buy the Damn Glue Sticks!

It’s back to school time… womp womp womp…. I’m just getting started with summer vacation.  Every year around this time when stores put up their fancy back to school displays, I start to see all the complaints about buying school supplies. And you know what! It burns the depths of my soul! “Why do they need so many glue sticks? The teacher should….” *grabs pearls* The teacher probably spent way more on school supplies than the $50 per kid you will buy on top of the fact that your kids shoes cost more than what you spent on school supplies. I know that because I (who REFUSES or at least tries to not buy school supplies) has already spent $50 on school supplies. I still am waiting on 60 folders to go sale so I don’t have to spend $30 on folders and I’m going to buy at least 20 glue sticks myself.
YES!! Your child needs however many glue sticks are listed on the list and whatever is on the list. You don’t know how many glue sticks end up without tops on them and dry out, or kids roll all the way up and smash them when they try to put the top on it, or they cut them in half, or they just throw away for NO REASON! I’m running around like a glue stick police trying to keep all the glue sticks safe.  And let’s not talk about tissues. They grab a handful of tissues and WIPE their nose and throw them away. They didn’t blow it so it it’s continues to run, so before you know it, a box of tissues are gone in 30 minutes.  I spend at least a month (sometimes MUCH longer) teaching children how to not waste YOUR supplies so I don’t have to go into my stash. With all the gluing, writing, germs etc. your child needs all of the supplies listed … so just BUY THE DAMN GLUE STICKS!
My School supply list if I could send out my own would go something like this…
-          5 COMPOSITION books (not spiral notebooks- those wires are not safe)
-          2 boxes of Crayola crayons (They color the best.)
-          36 quality pencils (Cheap pencils are eaten up by the pencil sharpener and break it.)
-          2 pair of scissors
-          8 large or 12 regular sized Elmer’s glue sticks (the others dry out and end up in trash by March)
-          1 regular pencil box
-          plastic pocket folders with prongs in green, purple, and black
-          2 pocket folders of your child’s choice
-          8 highlighters
-          1 box of gallon sized zipper bags (girls)
-          1 box of sandwich sized zipper bags (boys)
-          2 regular sized bottles of hand sanitizer (not the little individual bottles)
-          Clorox/Lysol wipes
-          2 boxes of tissues
-          8 dry erase markers
-          1 pair of headphones
*You know your child, if he/she is clumsy, destructive, or messy you should purchase and send extra of these items. For those little people, the items listed will NOT last them/us through the year.*
Things not to send those little personal pencil sharpeners and fidget spinners. Additional requested items but not required by each child include notebook paper, cardstock, snacks, markers, paper plates, etc. Please feel free to reach out and request are sent out regularly.


But on a real note, teachers pour a lot of unpaid time as well as their own personal money into their classrooms and your child’s school year. The least you can do is send YOUR child to school READY to get the most of those 180 days. I am grateful every year for those parents who send in snacks, GLUE STICKS, etc. throughout the year! They are truly a blessing because some kids are not fortunate enough to afford supplies and brand new back to school gear and that helps me meet those children’s needs  and worry about more important things like ya know, teaching.  If you buy your 7 year old Jordans for his first day back, you do not need to be on my timeline complaining about .50 glue sticks... 

Friday, August 11, 2017

Be Humble.. Sit Down

Life is a humbling experience. You are reminded daily that regardless how amazing you think you are… somebody may not agree or you are not always as AWESOME as you’d like to think.
Life is a continuous All State commercial. You know the one with the old guy and the fishing rod. “You almost had it!” I feel like the person trying to get whatever he is dangling from that fishing rod on the regular.  I think I’m getting close to something, I get body slammed by life and told “not today boo!”

I’m learning just to roll with punches. Dodging the ones I can and attempting to take the ones that make contact like a G. Some days I’m down but not out!

Sunday, July 30, 2017

Girls Trip

So I went to see Girls Trip this weekend and last weekend. First, let me say that was AWESOME!!! It is definitely going to be one of those movies I watch over and over on Saturdays and Sundays in my pjs. I loved seeing those black women be just that, black women. I even loved the Howard Homecoming plug (not to mention the HU Alum in the movie)! This movie reminded of me of my girls trips to Miami, Vegas, Mexico, and even NOLA just to name a few, where I’ve definitely had some Girls Trip moments. *sigh* Good times! *looks off into the clouds*
As I watched this movie, I sat and tried to figure out which of these characters I would be in my various circles of friends. I can see myself in each of them. Although, regardless of the group of friends, I’d be that person in the mosquito net about to “catch something” at some point in each of my trips. LOL I love a shress and good time.  But, I really connected with Ryan. The person who also seems to have it all together when in real life, her life isn’t as “perfect” as it seems. She’s struggling with the “can women really have it all?” dilemma which I’m sure so many of us battle regularly. For her right now, she doesn’t. I’m not going to spoil it for those of you who haven’t seen it, but just know she has her struggles in the movie. I know we all struggle to know and accept our worth at times as we live out our disappointments, failures, and setbacks. I see(n) it and I’ve live(d) it.  Hell, I’ll be the first person to admit I struggle with this DAILY. She’s also is not as connected with her “girls” as she would like to be. Getting caught up in her own life as well as friend fall out, she and her frields have lost touch. I understand this. I have so many friends that I don’t see or talk to often but at the end of the day love is still there.
As I continue to walk this sometimes crooked path called my life I’ll look back on all my “Howard Homecoming/Graduation Keisha moments” with my girls and I smile and I’m thankful for those people who always have my back. We are all just trying to figure out what this thing called life has in store for us. I move forward, just trying to know my worth and requiring people to know it too!

Oh yea, to my Julian… I see you boo liking them post… *pulls down shades and looks over them*

Sunday, July 23, 2017

What You Mean By That?

You ever had someone say something to you and in your head your go “Bitch! What you mean by that?” But you don’t say that, you just “smile and nod” and respond. Yea it happens to me and probably most us more than any of us would like to admit. The more I thought about it the more annoyed I got about this particular situation.

Let’s be real… I felt there were several things wrong with what was said. It was something along the lines of if the guy I had dated were to commit to me would I “keep myself up better”. For one, drawing on my eyebrows everyday ain’t. gonna. make.  no. man. want. me. HELL, this particular man didn’t want me at my BeyoncĂ©. Which brings me to my next point, if a man doesn’t  want me at my Amanda Bynes crying in the dark hallway, he don’t deserve me at my BeyoncĂ© looking good and slaying life. Which rolls right into, my next point. Bitch, I’m doing good to be standing, there are certainly days within the last few months I’ve been hella close to being that falling apart famous girl, we see in the media. But you’d never know. I’m doing the best I can to hold it all together. And even when I didn’t have a hold of it all, I still managed to get it all done. So nope my eyebrows aren’t drawn on and my hair is still in this tired ass ponytail but check the trail of glitter I left behind. When it’s all said and done people may not remember me for being fly as hell everyday but I’ll have more hearts that I can count that will remember to be their best selves because of me. But no worries, at my memorial they’ll be a fly ass face beat pic on my index card obituary and no casket, so the Llyods of the world will know I was “fine too”. LOL *wink face* *sashays in to the sunset with a hair flip*